The cult of busy-ness.
The Martha’s and the Mary’s – Sometimes it almost feels like a Westside story level divide of the Sharks and the Jets. The timeless face-off of down to earth, realism, pragmatism, get down to it and get it done-ism, vs. A starry eyed head in the clouds, eyes in the stars, so heavenly minded of no earthly good or use. Or is it the opposite – so stuck in a rut-stuck in the weeds, can’t see the forest for the trees, type-A, too detail and task focussed, vs. Open to new ideas, and an ever widening horizon, taking every opportunity to learn, grow, expand oneself, one’s thinking, one’s spirituality and religion to make the world a better place and learn to serve others better? And there are more interpretations and re-interpretations of these archetypes of course. Some helpful, some not. And then sort of like “doubting Thomas” the Marthas and the Marys get pigeon-holed, and maybe with some judgementalism creeping in there. Andre – you are such a Martha! James, you are such a Mary! (Sometimes it is helpful to be able to pick on the other clergy to make a point!) And Jesus says that this is not the point – this is not correct. But we are left with that last line to figure out. “Mary has chosen the better part which will not be taken away from her.”
In a conversation I was having the other day with a nun that I know, I said that I needed to be a better associate and be better at staying in touch. I don’t know if you have had the same experience with nuns, but the grace, and the wisdom that comes out of every interaction that I have with them is humbling, and comforting, and calls me on all of my BS in a gentle and loving way. The sister said to me – why not just be you. And then by being you, you will find that you do a better job of being you, and by being you, you will find you do a better job of being an associate and of being a good correspondent, and everything. Just. Be. You.
I wonder if what Jesus is saying, is essentially what the Sister was telling me – Mary is being herself – and is Martha just needs to be herself – not worry about what her sister is being – but be herself – be who God created her to be, and that will be good. And that will be better, and make things better. Just. Be. You. A Beloved child of God. Know you are loved. Know you are beloved. Know that you are allowed to be you. Know that you are called to be you. Know that you are loved for being you. Know that in being you, God’s love will be at work in and through you, and that by so doing and being, you will make God’s love known to all whom you meet. Martha – just. Be. You. Mary. Just. Be. You. And maybe, just maybe, for today, that is enough. Amen.


Angus Sinclair was appointed Director of Music of St. John the Evangelist on February 1, 2023. Having graduated in 1981 (Honours B.Mus.) in organ performance from Wilfrid Laurier University, he went on to distinguish himself as a church musician, recitalist and accompanist touring in both Canada and the UK. For over 40 years Angus has served parishes and congregations throughout Southwestern Ontario as director of music. He experiences his present appointment to St. John’s as a welcome homecoming, both spiritually and musically.
As our parish musician, he provides both support and leadership so that a variety of parish programs can find musical expression and attract participation. When our handbell choir is in season, he is one of our ringers. At parish dinners, he provides popular piano music for the guests to dine by. For both worship services and concerts, he will rehearse and accompany vocal and instrumental soloists from our congregation on piano, organ, or even accordion.
Angus Sinclair was appointed Director of Music of St. John the Evangelist on February 1, 2023. Having graduated in 1981 (Honours B.Mus.) in organ performance from Wilfrid Laurier University, he went on to distinguish himself as a church musician, recitalist and accompanist touring in both Canada and the UK. For over 40 years Angus has served parishes and congregations throughout Southwestern Ontario as director of music. He experiences his present appointment to St. John’s as a welcome homecoming, both spiritually and musically.